Don't have kids. And Lancelot is a punk. Watch his ass.

 Please use your head before you follow your heart blindly, he isnt worth it but belive me things do get better and the angels will smile on you again, just keep smiling and being yourself, dont change yourself for anyone

 No your not going to "be normal", but that's not what you're here for. That anger is your strength, it's the strength you'll need to protect and care for the ones you love, and maybe eventually you'll find someone who sees that and will love you for it.

 If someone wants to be in your life, they will make an effort to do so. Don't put yourself out on the line, he's not worth the 12 years.

 I know it hurts now, but saying goodbye was the best thing you could have ever done. You deserve better than him.

 Don't stay with him, try to make it work, and give him everything because you feel like if you leave him you won't be good enough to find someone else, trust me when i say YOU WILL.

 You should have left when he cheated.

 Time does not heal all wounds, my cuts are still gapping open.