Learn your limits and SAY NO. it sounds corny when your mom says it, but it's true: If it makes him leave, he truly is not worth it.

 Don't be so intense. Really, you're not in a Jane Austen novel (but i'm glad you read them!).

 You've thought about them everyday for three years and they haven't done the same. You. Deserve. Better.

 Don't go around saving everyone else when the one who needs saving is you.

 Mom will leave dad, and you will all finally start to be happy. There is a happy life out there, that does not depend on him and his bottle. Do not think that other men will drink and hurt you like he does. Your husband is a kind, generous, patient man who loves you and your unborn child.

 The faster you learn not to give a shit what people think, the happier you will be.

 Don't fall too hard or too quick at such a young age. Make sure you can trust a guy before giving your everything to him. Also, when it's over.. Don't dwell, you can do better.

 She's not coming back. She doesn't miss you. She cheated on you with two of your friends. Don't kiss her. Don't let her convince you that sex is okay.